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Are you thinking about moving in together or getting married?

 

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Hi its Julianna Lyddon here and so today I want to talk about something that came up my classroom. I teach college kids, incoming freshmen in Arizona and today we were talking a little bit about habits and how we can stop behaviors before they become habitual and having that real awareness of what a habit is and how long it takes a habit to be actually formed and really getting in there and making that unnecessary shift.

Some of the kids brought up….. we have such great discussions …and some of them brought up this concept of relationships and marriages and how complicated that can be when two people have very specific habits. And how they come together in a relationship and how it can be extra difficult at eradicating or even really making the shift that’s very necessary so then the conversation kinda parlayed into someone asking if I believe in premarital counseling and so we had a discussion about that and I absolutely think that if individuals would go to see someone before they get married or even moved in together more marriages would be salvaged… would be saved.

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Four First Date No No’s

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In my coaching practice, I help many people navigate the dating world. It is a different game then it used to be. There are so many different ways to meet people with all of this online dating.  We really need to be cognizant of a few things. There are so many mistakes that people make that can be avoided.  So lets get to it.

  1.  When you are on a date be sure that you are not spending the entire time discussing all of the devastating,  disastrous dates you have had in the past. You would be surprised how many people do this and especially if you are talking about online dating and then they start sharing all of these horrific experiences and the other person says I don’t think I want to hear this, what is wrong with you. So be careful about doing that.
  2. Be careful about comparing the person you are on a date with to somebody else.  Often we come out of a relationship and we are so unhappy because maybe the individual broke up with us and we love them so much….that we cant stop thinking about them so everybody new we are with we are comparing and holding an opinion or a judgement. So go into that first date thinking that you are just going to have fun. You are going to live in the moment you are not going to spend too much time about what is going to happen in the future.  You are just going to have fun.  So you cant hold any preconceived notions here.
  3. I want you to be very very careful about talking about yourself too much…..

 

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#1 FEAR we all have in common?

 

#1 FEAR we all have in common?

 

#1 FEAR we all have in common?

Do you know what it is?

This is Julianna Lyddon and here is my question for you today.  Do you know what the number one fear is that most of us have in common?  Take a second… if you guessed being alone than you nailed it.  Studies show that most of us are scared of being alone at one time or another in our lives.  Now its natural for us to be concerned about this as we get older especially if we are going to lose our partner or we are in ill health.  But I want to talk about this concept of really being ok with being alone. No matter how old you are.  Because here’s the thing,

we spend our lives building relationships outside of ourselves Click To Tweet

We spend time working at the family relationships.  We spend time working at the relationships at our work or in our community or with our neighbors or in-laws and on and on.  But often we don’t spend time getting to know ourselves.  Many of us can define who we are by the relationships that we are in.  You know that individual who when their loved one goes out of town and they are alone, they have to go to stay at someone else’s house. Or we know that individual that can’t go anywhere without being with other people or they always have to be busy.  Because being alone is very scary, is very unsettling.  

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#1 FEAR we all have in common?


First Date No No’s

Going on a first date? 
Here are some no no’s for you to think about.

This is Julianna Lyddon and today on my video blog I am going to give you some tips on what not to do on your first date.  Through my coaching practice I am helping several people who are moving into this dating world and boy is it different than it used to be.

There are so many different ways to meet people with all this online dating and we need to be cognizant of a few things.  There are several things that I see, mistakes that people make that really can be avoided.

Number one… Be sure when you are on a date, that you are not just simple talking about all the devastating, disastrous dates you have had in the past.

You would be surprised how many people do this especially if you are talking about online dating.  And then they start sharing all of these horrific experiences and before you know it one person is like I don’t want to hear this anymore, what’s wrong with you…

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First Date No No's

 


Guys, Wrap It!!!

Guys, Wrap It!!!

Guys, Wrap It!!!

OMG!!!

You have to hear this!!!! In my practice I have heard everything… the good, the bad and the ugly! Rarely does anything phase me. As many of you know, a large part of my practice is helping women and girls find their voice and stand in their power. I help a lot with dating and relationship building techniques, etc. Today I was actually shocked and was laughing out loud!!

My client was telling me about a guy she was dating and she had found out he had an affair on her. When I asked if she asked him if he used a condom, she said yes and wait until you hear this!!! He said…..”no I didn’t, but that’s okay because in case you didn’t know….when you fuck really hard, your immune system gets heightened and you can’t get STD’s!”

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Connect with Julianna introduces a digital magazine!

Connect with Julianna is thrilled to introduce a Digital Magazine !

In this issue: 

Relationships and familiar dysfunction

My personal story into my intuitive self

 

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“The Focus On Relationships”

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“Living an authentic life begins at the end of your comfort zone”

 

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We All Deserve To Be Adored

 We All Deserve To Be Adored

As women, we all know that tender feeling that moves through us when being kissed on the forehead by the one we love the most! So often I hear in my practice all of the sad stories of neglect and abuse within relationships. There are so many people who are lonely while in relationships. This is just a sweet reminder that we all deserve to be adored, loved and kissed on the forehead every once in a while. So go do it:))

We All Deserve To Be Adored


A Special Valentine’s Day Message: Tips on Keeping the Romance Alive

Julianna’s February 13th segment on Arizona Midday 12 was all about ways to keep the romance alive in your relationship. Try these tips to add a spark–or even rekindle the flame–in your love life.

ROMANTIC VOUCHERS
Create your own “love coupons,” or click on the links for the websites below for free, custom printable vouchers.
Romance Stuck http://www.romancestuck.com/love-coupons.htm#sthash.bOczY92U.dpbs
Romantic Ideas Online http://www.romantic-ideas-online.com/romantic-coupons.html
Knock Knock Stuff http://www.knockknockstuff.com/catalog/categories/books-other-words/vouchers/vouchers-for-lovers/
Loving Hugs http://www.lovinghugs.com/romantic_printables.php

SET A ROMANTIC STAGE: A few small touches in the bedroom can really set the mood
Paint pillowcases with hearts and roses using washable paint
Scatter rose petals
Burn scented candles
Playlist of favorite love songs
Soft lighting

ROMANTIC MASSAGE
You don’t need any special training. Just set a romantic stage as suggested above, pick up some coconut or jojoba oil and essential oils at any health food store and give it a try!

ROMANTIC SCAVENGER HUNT
This is a fun and light way to get the evening started! Clever clues to various places eventually leading to the place you want to spend your evening. The destination could be a romantic restaurant, the theater, or even the master bath for a bubble bath for two. Be creative and have fun!

COOK A MEAL TOGETHER
Sharing a meal you prepare together creates an intimacy that can be the beginning of a very romantic evening. It requires some advance planning to be sure you have everything you need, as well as the time to put it all together, but the rewards are great: a delicious candlelight meal and quality time spent with your loved one or spouse.

 

 




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